Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Im married & away from home. searching a friend with whome i can share my feelings. mi disloyal with my wife?

why don't you search for your wife instead?disloyal big timeIm married %26amp; away from home. searching a friend with whome i can share my feelings. mi disloyal with my wife?
Hi sorry it doesnt right to me. U want a friend jus coz ur away from ur wife? Do u have marital issue wit ur wife may i ask? Otherwise i dont see a reason to search 'new' friend for the sake of sharing feelings.





U may want to share wit ur existing friends nothing wrong but searching for one now may be inappropriate. Wont she feel lonely too when ur not around? Distance will make u guys miss each other. Arrange for meeting wit her if possible and rekindle the harmony in marriage. Is she so not approachable or ur not able to contact her. Either way u have to work it out.





Wife is not merely to have physical relationship, do chores and take care of kids. She too have feelings of her own and dont show any disrespect by finding someone else to share ur prob wit unless u feel she s the prob. First U hav to treat her lik a friend.





WOMAN apart from wife can be a mother, companion and friend. Depends how ur wit her. And to share ur feelings im very sure u ll seek woman friends rite not guys and believe me it will lead to sumthin else. If u know wht i mean. Its a grave mistake. .Im married %26amp; away from home. searching a friend with whome i can share my feelings. mi disloyal with my wife?
I dont know. I was of the opinion that your wife/husband should be your love, your lover, your confidante and your best friend. Maybe I am wrong. Maybe I have been living in a fantasy world for 54 years. The amount of people who turn away from their wife and husband just amazes me. I am starting to think that I am the only person in the world who believes in true love.





Maybe if people took a bit more care before they married, then no-one would be asking the question you are asking.





You obviously didnt choose too well when you decided to marry your wife. You obviously did not look at the bigger picture. Marriage is not just about sex and passion.....she has to be a good friend too....she has to be a person you trust and can lean on in times of trouble....and vice versa.





Comunication, compatibility, respect and friendship all form a part of a good solid marriage.





Im sorry you dont see your wife as your best friend and confidante.....You should have chosen better to begin with....you should never have married her.





I take it all back if your wife totally deceived you when you were dating her. I take it all back if she lied to you previous to marrying her. I take it all back if she was nothing more than a fake person trying to trap you into marrying her.





If she deceived you, then yes, look for a friend who you can confide in. I would go one step further though.....leave your wife because she is not the woman you thought she was.....or could it be that you are not the man you should be?
Since your out there searching for friends, why don't you go ahead and find one for you wife. After you have lined up the friends. invite them to your home and you and your wife enjoy the company of your new friends. That way it will all be fair and no one gets hurt.
A wife is a friend also.Talk to her. If you find a friend who is a male, not a problem.But if you find a female friend you can be counted disloyal to your wife.
If you can look for a ';friend'; because you are lonely, then she can look for a ';friend'; when you are gone too.... How would you like it if she was doing the same thing to you?
Learn to 1st share your feelings with your wife - ie why you are a husband!
Yes how would you feel is the shoe was on the other foot?
you should search a friend in your wife

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